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The Taoist Way Of Sex

In the '60s, when scientists first announced that women could orgasm not just once, but multiple times in a row, it created great controversy. Now it's common knowledge, and women's magazines, such as Cosmopolitan, are constantly talking about it. This begs the question: Are multiple orgasms possible for men as well? Personally, I become envious when I read an article or talk to a woman about the pleasure she experiences while having sex. All we get is a little bang and that's it, since we're totally wasted after getting off, right?

Well, my friend, I have good news for you if you are willing to experiment: Male multiple orgasms ARE POSSIBLE. The bad news is that learning to elicit them requires a lot of work and patience. When a woman orgasms, it happens inside her head. When you do, it happens mostly locally, down there. If you want to have multiple pleasures, you will have to separate the reflex in your spinal cord - which causes ejaculation - from the stimulation in your brain, which causes the actual orgasm itself. Learning to be a multi-orgasmic man requires a great deal of knowledge and exercise and is beyond the scope of this article. But, if you're interested, I'll try to get you started by sharing a few hints.

You can achieve multiple orgasms in two ways. The first is to learn to control your PC muscle and avoid ejaculation by contracting it properly during sex. The problem is that you will still have some semen leaking into your urinary bladder, which you will eliminate later. You can achieve multiple orgasms this way, but it's not very elegant, and it will cause you to lose sexual energy just as a normal orgasm does.

The second way is to learn to control your sexual energy. As crazy as it sounds, this will lead to non-ejaculatory orgasms and learning to experience "whole-body" orgasms, just as women do. Sounds good, huh? There are two Eastern schools of thought from which you can learn this: Tantric sex from India and Taoist sex from China. I recommend the Taoist way, because it's easy and free from any unnecessary religious connotations. The Chinese are really practical, down-to-earth people. Think Bruce Lee films. Think acupuncture.

So, if you choose Taoist sex, there is a great book that explains it all in detail called The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know. It was written by a Chinese master, Mantak Chia, and a Western psychologist, Douglas Abrams, in a very understandable way. This is a book every man should buy and read.