How To Have A Threesome

It's pretty common knowledge that most men have a fantasy involving getting two women at the same time. But for many of them, that fantasy will never become a reality. However, that could be just because they haven't asked for it in the right way. So not only will we talk about how to get to the point where a threesome could be a reality for you and your partner, but also some specific ways to make it happen and make it a great experience for all of you.

The first step is to understand that from a woman's point of view, if their boyfriend or husband asks for a threesome, they are likely to perceive it as "I'm not giving him what he needs" or "I'm not enough for him anymore." It's important for you to make sure that you approach the subject from a direction that will make her comfortable and keep her from losing confidence in herself or in your relationship.

The easiest way to do this is to start by asking her about her fantasies. If you're lucky, she may come right out and say that she has fantasized about being with another woman before. If this is the case, then you can certainly segue right into a conversation about how much you'd love to watch that happen. But you have to be prepared for the possibility that she might balk at the idea. And pressuring her or threatening her is the last thing you should do.

Instead, talk about how amazing you think it would be to watch another woman touch her. Or to watch her touch another woman. Let her know that it's really the idea of her being with another woman that turns you on, not the idea of being able to fuck two women at the same time (even if that is actually the truth.) Ask her what celebrity or other kind of woman she would like to fuck if she were a man. That will give you some indication of what kind of woman she might find attractive without her having to cross the line that says that she would actually be with another woman.

Once the conversation is out there and she knows what you'd want, the next step is to create situations in which a threesome is actually possible. If she has agreed to the scenario, then you two can select the third person together. But if she's still unsure, you might need to find the other woman on your own and then create the situation where the three of you will be alone together, preferably at your home.

Then you create a reason for you to touch each other in a nonsexual way at first. Perhaps you suggest that you three dance and you pay attention to both women, but always keeping your long time lady's reactions in view. Or, massages are always a good way to break the ice. Tell your lady that you heard about a massage technique where, by using 4 hands in perfect synchronicity, it feels like it's 1,000 hands. Tell her you want to show her. Have her lie on her stomach and instruct the other woman to do exactly what you do. After a few moments, suggest that you switch and let the two women massage you. This will get them working together - a prelude to what you hope will follow. Next, you and your lady should massage the third woman. Dare her to follow your hands into more sexual places - around her breasts, down her thighs, her buttocks. Make eye contact with her that lets her know how this is turning you on. Then pause - and build the tension by keeping quiet for a moment as you stare into your lover's eyes. Next, lean across the woman below you and kiss your lady while you rub the other woman's back. Kiss her hot, passionately, like you're going to cum any minute. Then take her hand and put it on the woman's back while you lean down and kiss her. Keep one hand on your woman. Then turn the head of the woman lying down towards your woman and gently press your woman's head down to meet hers. Watch the two women kissing as you fondle the tits or rub your fingers between the legs of your woman. Always keep coming back to your woman, making it clear how turned on you are by watching her.

If you lay the groundwork, keep it focused on your woman instead of on your own needs and make it clear that you want her to be comfortable, you should be able to have a successful experience. But how exactly will you satisfy both women if you actually do get the chance to live out your fantasy? Well, that will depend in part on how far the two women are willing to go with each other. If they are not willing to perform oral sex on each other, then the task will be left to you. Remember that you have three possible major means of satisfying the two women - your hands, your mouth and your cock. So at any one time, you could use any one or two of those on one woman and still have the other one for the second woman. Use your imagination and let them guide you. If you are fucking one woman, the other one will most likely let you know what she wants by putting herself where she needs to be. But if you can add to her pleasure, do so. It will only encourage her to add to yours.

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