 How To Make Your Cum Taste Better And Get Your Women To Swallow
For some men, whether or not a woman swallows his cum during a blow job is not that important - they're just happy to be getting head! But for others, when a woman swallows cum, it's a huge turn on that they want to have happen more often. But unfortunately, there are a lot of women who simply don't want to do it. If you would love your gal to swallow your load but she finds it unappealing, the first step to getting to get off in her mouth is to find out exactly what her objections are.
Maybe your girl simply doesn't know precisely what she'd be swallowing. If she's young or inexperienced in giving head, you might need to give her a little bit of information. Your cum, technically called "ejaculate" is a white fluid that contains both the semen and the fluid that helps it move along through your body and hers. If she doesn't know, explain to her that she can't get pregnant by swallowing your cum, but as a bodily fluid, it is capable of spreading STDs or other diseases like Hepatitis, so be sure that you both take the precautions that are necessary between two responsible adults. (Getting tested for disease, using condoms or a dental dam if you or she have any open cuts, sores or simply any concerns about disease.) It could be that she's concerned not just about STDs but about germs in general that she could get from performing a blow job or swallowing your cum. So share with her the fact that in healthy individuals, there can be less bacteria in your cum than in your saliva.
If your girl is calorie obsessed, she could have some idea in her head that swallowing while giving you head will actually blow her diet. But the fact is that the average amount of ejaculate, usually about a teaspoon or less, only has about 5 calories. She most likely burns more than that in the actions she is taking in giving you head! Sucking, bobbing up and down - the more vigorous she gets, the more calories she'll burn - not to mention the calories she'll use up in the rest of the sex acts you'll hopefully be doing around the blow job!
For a lot of women, it's not an issue of whether or not semen can make them sick or fat; it's the taste of the semen that keeps them from wanting to swallow it. If you find that this is the case for your gal, then there are some steps you can take to solve this problem too. Although the exact taste of cum will vary from person to person, there are some things you should avoid in order to prevent a bitter taste to your cum. Cigarettes, coffee and alcohol can all add to the "bad" taste of your ejaculate. Some people find that eating a lot of red meat also has the same effect. Garlic and onions often permeate your sweat and will do the same thing to your cum. On the other hand, lots of men report that their girls are more willing to swallow their jizz when they've been eating lots of fresh fruit and vegetables. Citrus fruits and celery in particular seem to have a positive effect. You'll need to experiment in order to find out what foods have the desired effect for your lady. You might find it helpful to keep a food diary where you write down everything that you eat and then make notes about what your women noticed about the taste of your cum.
If changing your diet isn't practical or you just can't seem to quit the alcohol and cigarettes, there are some other things that you can try. Start by giving her less to swallow; each time a man ejaculates during a sexual encounter, the amount of ejaculate will be less. So if she tends to balk at the amount of cum you're shooting, then wait until after you've had sex to get her to suck you off.
You can also teach her about how to avoid experiencing the taste by aiming the cum into an area where she won't taste it as much. The tongue has different groups of taste buds that are more sensitive to different flavors. The ones that taste bitter flavors are at the back of the tongue. So if she doesn't like your cum's bitter taste, she needs to learn to keep it off of the back of the tongue. She could either deep throat your cock when you're about to cum so that everything misses the tongue, or she'll need to have you shoot your load at the very front of the tongue and then quickly swallow it all at once. It may take some practice, but she could get to a point where she can actually stop the experience of the bad taste and just enjoy giving you head and swallowing what you give her.
Of course, she can also use a number of methods to mask the taste. Have her try putting some toothpaste or a strong mint in her mouth before she gives you head. It will cover up the taste of your cum and you may also find the effect rather stimulating. You could try using some foods like chocolate sauce, whipped cream or honey, but be sure that you clean yourself very thoroughly afterwards in order to avoid hygiene problems. The same effect can be achieved by using a flavored lube. There are lots of flavors to choose from so that you can find your favorite.
In the end, remember that communication is key to understanding why your girl is resistant to swallowing so that you can try to solve the problem together. One other thought; if you aren't willing to go down on her, don't be surprised if she doesn't want to go down on you. You might need to work on ways to enjoy giving her head so that she finds it even more exciting to give back to you in kind.
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